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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by CharanyaRam, Sep 4, 2011.

  1. CharanyaRam

    CharanyaRam Bronze IL'ite

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    I thought that magic exist only in books, right from kambaramayanam til movies:coffee. But felt that magic rolled me over on this same day but 5 years back. Cupids magic wand twisted me up and down and round and round :spinI fell in love with my Ram..(Not kambaramayan ram but my real time raman.. Charanya Ram).

    He was my boss who intervwed me for one of the urgent openings he had in his office, but the ques was lil abt my knowledge in that field but more on my personal... like R u a brahmin? Iyer or Iyengar? But unfortunatley he missed to ask what gothram I am? later that became a prob for our marraige.....

    Lot of things & sweet memories... I never felt that as love or never thought that he is going to be my hus but for him he said to his mom that when he first saw me he felt as if he is talking to his wife... Im glad for that...

    First time i felt the meaning of "Annalum nokinan Avalum nokinal" not poetic but that feel beautifully went over our hearts....

    Ildies... Anyone experianced this..??? please share......
     
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    So Ram was more urgent to fill his life vacancy..
     
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    Mine was an arranged marriage. When my hubby came to see me in my house he stared and stared at me like anything in front of all relatives :spin. Ofcourse we got some time to talk in private, but again he started his staring business. So i had to cover up the silence by talking some bla bla bla stuff. I was waiting for him to leave my room, but it looked like he never have an idea of leaving. Finally I stood up as a note to leave the room. Then he left the room in a hurry towards his parents and said an immediate okie to marry me. So nokio nokiayanu romba nokitar en DH :biglaugh

    Later when I asked him why did he stared me so much, his cool reply was " Well I did came to your house only to see you, Everyone told me that we are going to see the bride and you were the bride and I saw you" :rotfl
     
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    Hmm......... He was asked to see the bride and he did.....

    But i could imagine ur situation.. Romba vazhiavendiirukumae?
     
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    :rotfl yeah... I couldn't see him directly as he was staring at me and I felt like laughing too. Somehow I managed to look normal. All sweet memories :)
     
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    Guys are specialist in staring at someone... I really dont understand what is making them to stare at us like this? They very well know that we will feel akward hmmm at least i think. My DH soon after i join his office he started his staring business.. sometimes i will feel that he is eating with his eyes uh...

    Yu are rightly said Scarlet... All these sweet memories will make the marraige bond stronger, especially when we miss them... and I miss my DH very badly now.. and counting my days to see him.

    though we will certainly have some bad times if we think of only the good times that we had... it will make home a sweet home and I started this thread to make many smiles while sharing their sweet memories here but only we two are chatting....

    anyways.. I am very happy to give you a chance to rejoice your memories..
     
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    pulisimha New IL'ite

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    All love are not equal otherwise ambikabathi amarabathi, romeo juliet, laila majnnon would not have become famous for their love. The intensity of love varies from case to case.

    somebody are born with the gift of love. Love also can come at any age like when pandit Ravi shankar fell in love with a girl 34 years younger to him and that girl married already. Still the marriage happened between the two and the both lived together for 34 years before he died last year at the ripe old age of 92.

    Love doesn't come it happens that is why it is termed falling in love. One can't plan for love it will happen at the time fixed by Bhagvan. It is a prarabda karma. prarabda is the fate one has to experience.

    I myself fell in love with a married girl last year. The age difference is huge between us. She is employed and I am unemployed still she loves me.

    My sweet heart came to office in cab and she saw me and kept seeing me till I saw her. As soon as I saw her eyes looked down.

    The word Annalum nokinan avalum nokinal. I have heard that the girl in love will look at you and when you look at her she will look down. The same thing happened in my case.
     

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