Hi Guys !!!!!! I have this genuine problem. I am very short tempered girl and usually get hurt easily. I was like that since my childhood but never faced problems in parental home. My mom always used to advice me that I should not behave like this, but all in vein. I also felt bad about my behavior after some days and always promise myself not to repeat this but........... I used to remain silent all through those days when I became angry:evil: and it goes upto 2-4 days like that followed by a big outburst of crying/breaking some things and I will be fine thereafter. This same continues even after my marriage. Mine is a love marriage, no problems from any side, also we both are financially well but the problem lies in small/petty things which has no relevance in a life. I usually get angry with my husband if he will not do something I asked him to do, and this is enough to boost my anger. I have heard from my friends that their husband do this and that to show their love to their wives and I feel thats important also. I know my husband loves me but what's wrong if he shows a bit of that to me. I feel doing a little show-off is all OK if you are honestand in love truely. Even this is same for his parents, they will never show that they care for me. When I will say this to my husband, he will say that they love me but they can't do all the NATAK as my family does. Can anyone please tell me what's wrong in shoing somebody that you care/love them, you don't have to do anything physically but why this much misery with verbal expressions. And the funny thing is that when my anger will be in peak, my Hubby will then do all the pampering and cuddling, but why can't he do it before when I am also in a reciprocative mood. Are this is same everywhere. BTW, my husband is a very nice genuine person and has nothing like men ego, always helped me in cooking/doing all household chores etc, buying things for me if I will ask, now you understand my problem. I got things from my family as surprise but here there is no surprise at all. If I will say this to my husband, he will become defensive and it really hurts me. I am confused and sick. thank you to all those who can advice about this habit of mine !!!!!!!!!