Reached a stagye in my life where I am very comfortable with who I am. There used to be a time when I wanted to look beautiful for others/hubby and tried wearing all brands,sexy stuff etc but now I am very simple.I feel that is the real me.stopped buying expensive stuff and splurging only on the basic necessities.be it clothes,home goods etc ..everything is for me and the family and not to impress others.No more in the rat race for anything. I feel so content but at the same time i feel "THAT'S IT? THIS IS ALL IS LIFE ALL ABOUT?" life is calm and good but i do not have aims or ambitions anymore. Am i in the mid-life crisis?