I finally got a job !!! It has been around 3-4 months but already fights with hubby are exploding. I am giving exact figures cause maybe I am the wrong one so please help me what to do. My salary is $3900. I don’t want any issues with hubby so I have set up direct deposit where he gets directly $2000 out of this $3900. I told him I will contribute to half of household expenses if at any time there will be more than $4000 then I will transfer the rest to his account. He has never given me a credit card or cash to me. If I ever needed something I used to use my before marriage credit cards and cash as I had worked before marriage and had tons of money with me which my parents never took from me saying parents should not take from kids. But problem is when I was not working due to maternity and pregnancy he never gave me money to buy food or buy gas for car or anything. If I needed something he would yell I am sitting and eating on him and I am SITTING and eating his food and money. But he happily has money to buy Tesla’s and whatever his greedy heart desires working 2 jobs buying his mom end brother and sister whatever they want investing in Bitcoin and what not without even asking me. Think he put around $40000 n it without asking me. Now everything is gone. He counts even the food he gives or buys a pregnant wife. Why should I pay for his extravagant expenditure. He left me with 2 kids to work working from morning 6 to night 9 FOR 4 years. Did he buy even food for me during this time. ?? No. What did he do with his money buy a Tesla , buy his mom a car , buy his brother a scooter , bring his uncles to the us for tours but for his wife and kids NOTHING. Since this morning he’s yelling that he wants the whole $3900. I mean if I don’t have a job is he going to pay for my food ? He didn’t even buy food when I was pregnant. So how can I expect he will give me food or pay for my expenses if I give him all my money. Been married for 11 years he never gave me a credit card or money. Funny how I never realized it . I applied for credit card for myself and use it myself rotating credit cards till I get a job. Am I wrong ? Should I give him the whole paycheck ? I must mention he never did shipping the last 7 years of married life. But suddenly since lockdown started he’s doing shopping. Now saying he’s doing all the work in the house and I need to pay him all paycheck. I yelled the other day that he needs to do housework at least half the week as I am paying for half the household expenses. Now he’s saying I’m not doing anything at home cooking cleaning shopping and I need to give all Expenses. He does give kids breakfast as I’m busy with meetings at that time but that is once in a while. I was about to go shopping today since it’s Sunday and he says your going to go shopping in “my car “. I yelled well I’ll buy myself my own car if I keep my money.