Hi Friends, I have a problem, I thought I will be able to resolve this issue by talking it out with my DH, but its not working out. My DH is very caring, he does not seem to remember any hurtful things I have said in the past(he says so), he is loving, we are a couple with our usual fights and get backs. Neither of us can stay without talking to each other. Though he has said so many hurtful things in the past, he does not mean them. We have talked over all the past issues and my mind is a lot better now. But this one thing does not seem to work out at all. My DH has a lot of friends, he never stays at home on the weekends. He loves going out and returns only by night. This is happening from the 2nd month of my marriage. We had many arguments and it has somewhat reduced a little. I have already explained him that he needs to spend time with me atleast one day in a week. He says ok, and again reverts back to his habit of going out with his friends. I dont get it!!!:bonk I stay at home as if I am one of the furnitures in a corner, I have nothing to do in the weekends. I work, even I get only two days to relax, so obviously I will feel like spending time with him right? Why doesn't he understand?:rant Yesterday is just another example, I had planned to exchange my old gold with new ones and we both had gone to get it done. After that we had lunch outside, meanwhile he was getting phone calls and I knew something was cooking. I asked him about his plans and then he told me that he will drop me at home and go out with his friends. I was very upset, he had spent both friday(had taken leave) and saturday outside, only came home at night. He found out that I am upset and then cancelled his plan. I feel guilty for making him cancel his plans. Why doesnn't he understand that I am also there in his life and I do not have anyone to look upto. I do have friends, but everyone is busy with their lives, also I have a kid and I feel like spending time with my kid as family time. But dont you think that my DH needs to understand his responsibility. Mine is a love marriage, wonder where all the closeness has gone after marriage. We both used to long for spending time together, but now only I do that. Through out my life I cant keep cribbing for spending time with him. When at home, he keeps sleeping, or watching tv. Is there anything wrong with me, do you think I need to change, why is his behaviour like this? I have a 10mnth old kid and I wake up in the nights to feed him, but I dont sleep during day time though my sleep is very inadequate, I wonder why my DH wants to sleep the whole time. Is there nothing left between us to share and spend time. How do I make him understand? Please suggest something to change myself atleast.