Hi other ilites with adoloscent daughters, i have a daughter who has completed 12 and is going on 13. I am just scared (for want of a right word) with the question when...... will i be there to help her...what if at school... I have told my daughter about the changes and what to expect. but even then, what did u do or r u doing. if u have a daughter at this age of attaining puberty and how are you coping with the anxiety of being a mom at this stage.