Hello Ladies, My 7 years old daughter under estimate me. I felt this today . I recall that 36 vayathiniley movie. I am 37 years old. B.E engineer and 5 years workd at infosys because of her delivery i quit my job then after a year came to Germany. Now having 15 months old daughter too. My husband will not show his affection towards my elder daughter. From starting to make strong his bonds with her , told her your dad only did this( buying gifts) actually me only planned bought what she likes. On her birthday asked him to give those gifts . My hubby wont do household works. Sometimes will do if he gets mood. 90% he wont do anything. Me only cooking, cleaning shopping. Me daily preparing food breakfast, 11 am juices, lunch, snacks and dinner. So most of the time i were inside kitchen. On this corono lockdown full busy at kitchen. My hubby all time sutting with laptop snd listening something, doing meditation blah blah.... Now my daughter is saying i doesnt know anything other than cooking. My heart was broken. She is telling i doesnt know how to use laptop thsts y u didnt k know.... since daddy seeing laptop he knows all the things nu. From day starts i am runninv behind her.. she is not foodie. Making her to eat is very difficult. Me only sitting with her to do her homework and teaching tamil one hr sometimes 2 hrs. Sometime by cooking i am teaching her . Today i told her mothers day is coming whar u gonna to gift me she said when fathers day will come then only we both can cook for daddy nu. I feel very low I recalled 36 vayathiniley movie . As i am worthless and how do i can explain her What i should do now to change her thoughts. I feel i lose my identity. I feel like she doesn't wants me. Variety variety ah sappadu tharanum nu ninaixhadhu thappa... I am not taking care myself and not giving importance to my wishes... Please pour your thought now what should i do ?