Hoping Mil To Die

sadwife · Sep 22, 2023

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OP, reading your posts, you have a very big positive to make up for your pain-your H on your side agreeing with your feelings.
It would have been impossible if your H was oblivious to your feelings ( look around here, 90% of husbands usually are).

Dont fret over the future situation and lose sight of your everyday jackpot!.
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Yes, I'm very grateful for that.
Previously one of her relatives recorded her bad mouthing about others in the family and sent it to my husband and others in their family. Now I'm praying that the same person or someone else would do more recordings of her talking bad about me and my husband and forward it to my husband so that he gets a more clearer picture of his mother.

riya123 · May 2, 2024

OP, please work on addressing your own toxic thought patterns.

I can tell your thoughts are hurting you more than your MIL. Please remember nobody can hurt you without your permission.

it is normal to want to stay away from person hurting you but it is not normal to wish death on them. It is shocking to even read it.

You seem to be creating an imaginary situation of your MIL coming to live with you and so wishing death on her. Please address your toxic thought patterns and don’t worry about things that your mind has falsely made up.

Thyagarajan · May 2, 2024

Six months have gone by since sadwife lamented (replied) here.
The situation might hv had turned cordial and her relatives have become more amiable. Let IL members know the status @sadwife

Thyagarajan · May 27, 2024

Thank you @pinkydarling for being here and Awarded a like for my views to @sadwife

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