How To Block A Phone Number On Husbands Phone Without Him Knowing.

OP,
You are in a 24/7 stressful situation and perhaps that is why you have proposed such an outlandish thing but I see 2 positives in your post. One that you are asking our advice before implementing it - always a good thing to do!!
Second - you appear to have inadvertently identified the cause of your husband's erratic behaviour. It seems as per your post, he reacts to the pressure his family is exerting on him by exerting similar pressure on you in the form of unreasonable demands and tantrums. This insight, dear OP, is worth its weight in gold. Of course you should NOT do what you asked, as has been explained by so many others most cogently but... now that you know what triggers your h, or at least one of the triggers, you can watch out for signs that he is triggered and practice either preventive or avoidance behavior. For eg., for the anniversary, (congrats, btw!) I recommend you simply and quietly disappear. Take a spa day, go to the movies, pamper yourself do what you want. You deserve it. Of course without announcing all this in advance of course. And then refreshed and relaxed come back home calmly and resume business as usual. By doing this you will have quietly sent a message to him- that you are not at his mercy to be dumped on whenever he wants, that you are perfectly able to be relaxed and calm without him, that you are an independent person with a mind of her own. He will not know what hit him and plus point you will have averted another of those unreasonable and emotionally disturbing fights through which he vents his own angst.

Main takeaway of course is avoid or prevent confrontations when you already know he is triggered. Do not be foolish and take him head on or confront him when he is already upset. That is not the best time to make your point.

 

Winners don't do different things....instead they do things differently !!

The energy which you are using to find a way to block your hubby's phone, can be wisely channelized into using it more constructively by thinking so positively that no one can disturb you. You might find a way to block phone numbers but not people from his mind. So you have to address this issue at the grassroot level and find a more sustainable solution which will make you happy (as opposed to blocking phone can make you guilty)

 

Totally agree.
Get up, dress up to your best.
Go & buy gift for yourself. This is your anniversary. Treat yourself.
Enjoy to the fullest. Buy a lavish lunch. Based on your financials, buy anything from diamonds to set of spoons and in the end, just thank God that you were able to spend the day the way you spent. Try it. Maybe help someone in need. Donate some money. Just think this is your day. Before the evening comes, you should be done with your celebration, whichever way you choose & if husband doesn’t do anything in evening, just let it be. Enjoy some Netflix in the evening.

 

Girl. Enjoy yourself.
Get yourself a massage, facial that day. Order your favorite lunch and chill with your kids.

 

Ask your hubby to switch off mobile and dedicate one day to you alone .