For DILS - Your in-laws come to visit (daughter in laws in-laws) and the daughter in-laws relatives live in the same city. What if they are trying to bad mouth your parents and relatives in front of your husband and grandchild instead of letting them decide for themselves? Would you tell a family member this is happening? Is it unreasonable to take my child to stay with my mother? She’s a responsible person who does not gossip about or judge my husbands relatives.
You can take your kid wherever you want to..Nobody can dictate you. Rest those who bad mouth ..you cannot do anything about them..they wont change