Helpless - Anxious About Future

thanks dear … yes mom visits 2 times in last 2 years and stayed for 2 weeks each time. it hurts her too when he is living alone and thus asked him to come back to hyd, but he didn't respond. He visits mom twice a year . I try to talk to him , but he thinks I am only preaching him .. his well being is more important than anyting else thus I don't get any more topics to discuss... I am also tired and depressed , thus stopped calling him... I cannot test my patience anymore.. I left to God..

 

yes, I understand, he might be dealing with his grief in his own way..
he dont blame mom or me for his divorce. he has no complaints.
Yes, I get wondered when people remarry and live happily with kids , I wonder is it luck, or is it their attitute or Gods grace...everybody is different.
In last 3 or 4 vists to India he is very casual and did not discuss anything related to family and unfortunately he is very introvert and not open since his childhood.