Feeling Left Out In The Family

maroon · Jun 23, 2016

@SGBV, yes I am the eldest DIL. In fact I share more in common with each of the other two, than the other two do between them. I am not worried about their closeness. It is their intention to keep me out which they show outwardly that hurts sometimes. Even I have some people who I share better equation with mutually, but when there is a new or temporary addition in between, I make sure not to make them feel uncomfortable or unwanted. That is courtesy. That's what I am talking about.

Meandmylilly16 · Jun 23, 2016

sunshine1970 said: ↑

You know you should exit out of the group or go quiet for a long time then exit. Same thing happened to me, SIS in laws and cousins and family members were using whatsupp and other social media to say things, and take digs, and they can be passive aggressive because easy to be on social media, after being upset about this I closed all social media accounts. Now I have no FB and no whats up etc, I choose to communicate one on one with people via SMS or email. I no longer do group chats or likes. It took me a few months but now its good. that way I talk about what I want to talk about and no one can try to rub things in my face. People actually (the mean ones relatives) get upset when you leave fb because they can't get at you. Please don't feel left out, just cut off social media, exit the group on what sup and don't give a damn about what people think about you. You are so worried about what family will think but those same family members never bring up the fact that you are ignored.
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I agree, just get out of that group. Make your own group.

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