Help Needed in Deciding Marriage Alliance

You need to ask the guy and your cousin should be prepared to be involved in some way . What are their plans for the care of brother when mom is old or no more .

 

Rushing into this alliance i meant and not marriage by itself.

 

Hi,
Agree with DRK. No one will reveal that they are going to stay if asked.
Definitely there is this responsibility which will happen later.
It is the big question of whether ur cousin is ok to look after them if situation arises.
She is the one who has to go thro it.
It seems a bit rushy and the rush will definitely not help in coming to a decision.
Need to be clear with what the desire is and should not regret later.

 

Beingpositive1,
Let your cousin/sis be the primary decision maker, I think you have provided her the basis and various parameters. Let her be the primary decision maker.