Hi friends, just like to have your opinion my mil and mother are very close friends recently. But mil is very dominant behaviour to me.my husband also supports his mother only and blames me for everything. so I feel that at least my mother should understand my problems and support me. she can be nice to them when she meet but becoming friends with her is making me sad how should I come out of this terrible feeling i talked with my mother but keeps quiet sometimes tell I am right sometimes tell they are .please suggest
Hi dear, I have the same possessiveness to my parents and dh. I can understand your problem... Talk to your mom at the right time.. Try ur best to make her understand ur feelings... Do u have sister whom u can share ur problems ??
You have to be patient a bit. They are friends so be little careful and wait for right time. Don't over react. Think a lot before telling or doing something.. Generally two in laws are not friends.. mother and mil being friends can be advantageous too in many instances.. But you need to reorganize your thought and wait for the correct moment.