friends silly behaviour

shrutimanjunath · Sep 3, 2013

Hi Vasuma,

Thanks for your concern and the reply.

If even I am not having any support from family, I would prefer managing alone with hubby, rather than asking help from her. I am avoiding her as you said. Its she who joined us. Imagine if She is so non-cooperative during this, I wont be expecting her to help me during my pregnancy.

Vasuma09 said: ↑

Hi Shruthi,
As sangeetha told its always better to preplan especially for a day long shopping.Your friend is bit restless because she left her 1.5years old kid at home which is highly acceptable..you can do leisure shopping because you dont have any kid at home but just think abt her situation...I think she has spent solid 6 hrs with you for your shopping..
Friendship is always give and take, especially in a foreign country having friends are much more important as we dont have any family support when we are in need..you are pregnant now and you told that you are not going to have any family support during your pregnancy so it highly important for you to have good number of friends around yoh in case you need some
help, already you are having cold war with one of your friend because of her constant nagging and now this one...If you really dont want to help her by giving lift in your car and want to avoid her presence completely dont tell straight on her face you should show some maturity in handling this situation..
Dont stress yourself withlot of over thinking, you are pregnant so enjoy and cherish each and every moment with your baby..ease your mind by listening some nice music.we are always here to listen you so dont worry have a healthy pregnancy dear

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shrutimanjunath · Sep 3, 2013

She had joined us for the shopping. I really dint expect, she will make the hell in that situation. However im avoiding her for now. Even other ladies around the circle are getting this hint about her.

aruna09876 said: ↑

tell her if u need to get it out of ur heart.

she is crazy! she is going out with a couple and she needs to learn basic manners and courtesy.I will be so mad if i were u. infact,i do not even want someone dominating in my life.it is ur wish if u want to buy or not and she is the one who joined u and not vice versa!!
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rachaputi · Sep 3, 2013

1.30 to 6pm . As per u one hour journey.. From 2.30 to 6 u r still doing trails :hide:

She should have inform before one hour when she wants to leave.

I dont find any flaw in both versions. Both played equal roles.

shrutimanjunath · Sep 3, 2013

Hi, shopping began in the noon, In the evening we were in VS.
"At 6 pm I was in Victoria Secret shop doing the trials and there was lot of rush in VS."

Yes i agree she should have informed.

rachaputi said: ↑

1.30 to 6pm . As per u one hour journey.. From 2.30 to 6 u r still doing trails :hide:

She should have inform before one hour when she wants to leave.

I dont find any flaw in both versions. Both played equal roles.
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parvathi1980 · Sep 5, 2013

Well she has a small kid at home. As a mother I can relate to her concerns.

sanvi5 · Sep 7, 2013

I agree she should have informed you ahead she should leave by 6. But I would not judge her to be annoying or bad just by this instance. It is understandable she was rushing because she has a small kid at home.

Its nice that u tried to help her as she has no car, next time dont inform her about your shopping but groceries are real necessery items so you can clearly tell her the timings and only ask her to come if she is comfortable.

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