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Does your hubby interfere when you discipline your child?

Discussion in 'Miscellaneous in Parenting' started by Minamo, Jul 28, 2008.

  1. Minamo

    Minamo New IL'ite

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    Hi All,
    When you scold/discipline your child does your hubby object to it and finally does it end up as an argument between you and the other half?

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    Minamo
     
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  2. Rajul

    Rajul New IL'ite

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    Hi Minamo ...
    It depends upon the situation sometime he does and somtime not .
    But he never does in front of my daughter
    we always try to resolve it when my daughter sleeps.
     
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    veeramachaneni Platinum IL'ite

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    We always try to maintain the United Front :) So no he doesn't usually.
     
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  4. Dinny

    Dinny IL Hall of Fame

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    YES and NO...
    i usually dont interfere when my DH is scolding DS.But DH does at time does interfere when i get very strict with my son....i think my DH likes to spoil the kid more :)
     
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    Mahajanpragati Platinum IL'ite

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    unfortunaltely its me who interfer............i don't like the ways my hubby disciplines the kids(lots of lecture) & end up interferring.i try to stop myself.....many a times I succeed but still its long way to go.
     
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    Young@heart Silver IL'ite

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    Yes he does...inspite of being told a lot many times to not interfere in front of the kids and discuss with me later.
     
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    radhusankar Silver IL'ite

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    Ofcourse not, we both dont competite with each other, smtimes even he supports me when my dd was wrong...also he told the other members in the family not to interfere when we(me n DH) trying to correct her...I love his approach
     
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    oh.. we fight with each other only bcos of this.. My DH will always interfer when i discipline my kid!!!!
     
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    Its me interfering when my husband tries to discipline my DD's....after a days hectic work .. when he sees them just roaming around the house aimlessly he gets bugged-up:rantand quickly asks what they have been doing all day long....and they quickly turn to me for :help .. I feel bad for them and I do some cover up.
    My DH understands and all is well.
    I feel one of the parents should give cover (for small daily things ofcourse!) otherwise the kids will be lost for love and affection...if both start falling on them. Parents have to do this drama...that way kids will be taught and will be loved too.

    [Cover in the sense just calming the situation but not actually stopping your partner from disciplining the child.]
     

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