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Unromantic and busy husband.....

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Ishika84, Apr 5, 2013.

  1. GodIsOne

    GodIsOne Gold IL'ite

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    No you did not! Mr. Chennai did it.
     
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    sanvi5 Silver IL'ite

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    Ishika most men are not expressive so dont take it to heart instead try to convince him to take you on vacations, weekends shopping,movies,restaurants so he dont stick to internet or TV. Especially men abroad they are used to habit of sticking to internet before marriage and that continues and it irriates us women to the core.

    Its takes time for some of them to change meanwhile you continue being expressive which you do now.

    Stop making food on sundays or saturdays, say your very bored eating your own food.He will realize.
     
  3. bhuvnidhi

    bhuvnidhi IL Hall of Fame

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    I wish there is "one" Mr Chennai(punchbag) for every street so that the wives can take out the frustration of husband ( atleast occasionally) on him.LOL....But will one be sufficient ???
     
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    rohinipriya21 Silver IL'ite

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    why dont u nail him for same reason.u also keep urself busy, social networking, attending seminars,parlours n say ur busyto him.
     
  5. Rakhii

    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    I was thinking in the similar lines. Try ignoring him completely and see if it makes a difference.
    There is a risk factor though, that he becomes even distant.
     
  6. Ishika84

    Ishika84 Silver IL'ite

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    Finally a good reply....thanks sanvi
     
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    Awar Silver IL'ite

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    Well said!
     
  8. Rakhii

    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    ishika...sometimes when we concentrate too much on one person in life (this case your husband), they loose perspective. I am sure you tried almost anything in the book to spark some romance and I guess it didnt work. Can you try ignoring him completely and see if this works?
     
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    GiJoe Silver IL'ite

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    Singapore has some good public transportation, so try to meet your friends and plan your own things let's see if your husband starts noticing the change.
     
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    Decentguy New IL'ite

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    Nidhi

    Agree with you. I need a punchbag sometimes too. My wife has me as the punch bag :)
     

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