ILfriends....plz help me.

wheneever i am in a prob, i cant think of anyone else then this forum.
we r nri and have a grp wch meets monthly for the party.i am gud luking and comes from a gud background, my husband is talso working for a gud comp.i joined this grp thro a friend but whenever we used to meet this frn used to insult me for sme silly things like ur dress is luking bad n smthing silly n then she used to do the sme thing or get the sme dress.i ignored that as i m quite strong n positive.i knew they were jealous n' ignored it completely.i never show any superiority to anybody and always praised them but smehow it never came to my mind that they hate me so much.they want to know everything that i am doing but at the sme time they r cornering me and wud say sme nasty things wch again i ignored.dunno how to handle this......smetimes i hate myself as to why i trust ppl so much...i start my frndship assuming that they r gud ppl ,they have everything in life as i do...i m a positive person and i always remain happy with my set of things but smehow this is upsetting me now....plz help me.....!!!

 

thnks n2n and jasika for the reply and suggestion.