1. Have an Interesting Snippet to Share : Click Here
    Dismiss Notice

History repeats itself

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by iyerviji, Nov 14, 2008.

  1. iyerviji

    iyerviji IL Hall of Fame

    Messages:
    34,597
    Likes Received:
    28,768
    Trophy Points:
    640
    Gender:
    Female
    Lakshmi was just thinking how she passed these 30 years of
    married life. Before marriage she used to dream a lot. In life
    though she did not get what she wanted but she was the
    person who was happy in what she got.

    She was from a middle class family. Her father expired when
    she finished her X Std. Her brother was only looking after
    her and her sister and another brother. He also saw many
    alliances and finally she was married to Shiva.

    Shiva is a very nice man but was very economic. Since he had a big
    family and had to struggle in life he spent money only for
    things which are very necessary. Whereas Lakshmi wanted
    everything the best. Shiva was staying in a Chawl when
    they got married. Since both were working then they could
    shift to a flat. Lakshmi also adjusted to Shiva's way of life.
    Shiva was short tempered and a practical man. He did not
    like people whoshow off. When Lakshmi used to say that
    should also have everything like the latest furnitures etc
    Shiva used to say that if people come to see our house
    whether we have everything etc. then let them not come.
    Let them come for us , for the love which we show not
    for the house, or to see whether we have got all the
    furnitures etc. Since Lakshmi adjusted with Shiva they
    had a peaceful life. Children were born and at the right
    age they were married.

    Her younger daughter was married to Kannan who was
    a double graduate plus he had done MBA. He was also
    same like Shiva. Sometimes Lakshmi used to think that
    Kannan should have born to Shiva. Kannan was very
    economic. He had his own flat and Shiva's daughter
    had to adjust with him. She also like her mother never
    used to argue for anything and adjusted to her new life.
    Though Shiva had car he never used to go in it always.
    Some places they used to go walking. He was very good
    in saving money.

    Shiva did not have much money so he
    used to spend less, because of which he could save
    money , get his children married and enjoy his retired life.
    Where as Kannan had money, he had two houses, a car
    but still he will spend only if necessary. He wanted his
    wife to go to work and learn to live independently.

    So in life if u adjust u will have a peaceful life. Marriages
    are made in heaven. Dont you think that history has
    repeated itself.
     
    Last edited: Nov 14, 2008
    1 person likes this.
    Loading...

  2. upfsabari

    upfsabari IL Hall of Fame

    Messages:
    3,562
    Likes Received:
    1,918
    Trophy Points:
    308
    Gender:
    Female
    Vijima..

    Truly said.. We need to adjust within ourselves. Then life will be very happy.. :)

    Nicely said.
     
  3. iyerviji

    iyerviji IL Hall of Fame

    Messages:
    34,597
    Likes Received:
    28,768
    Trophy Points:
    640
    Gender:
    Female
    Sabari dear thanks for reviving my thread. All the best for the contest
     
  4. vchelluri

    vchelluri Gold IL'ite

    Messages:
    517
    Likes Received:
    362
    Trophy Points:
    145
    Gender:
    Female
    I agree with you Vijima. Life itself is an adjustment and we need to adjust at every mode of our life, whether it be married life or personal life or professional life, inorder to lead a peaceful life.

    Latha.
     
  5. iyerviji

    iyerviji IL Hall of Fame

    Messages:
    34,597
    Likes Received:
    28,768
    Trophy Points:
    640
    Gender:
    Female
    Latha dear thanks for your loving message
     

Share This Page