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Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by brahan, Apr 5, 2011.

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  1. Jun 15, 2011 #41
    PeeVee

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    ofcourse about the the kids..i never liked a brother sister in a house..either 2 boys or two girls..thats it..don't want my DILs or Son-ILs feel bad:rotfl..so wish to have a boy second time:)
     
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    brahan

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    You have a Sister and wanted a Brother and me the vice versa:rotfl
     
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    brahan

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    Am sorry about your Mom's loss..May her soul RIP
     
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    brahan

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    hehehe...:rotfl
     
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    iyerponnu

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    Brahan, I know what you mean... I would have loved to have a brother. Though I dont have one, I have lots of cousins.. one of them is real close to me. So in effect he is the brother for both of us :)

    But as I said before, I will not trade my sister for anyone else in the world...

    Mythili
     
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    meerajesh59

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    Hi Brahan
    You are lucky atleast you have a brother. For me no brother and no sis.
    I m the only child to my parents.

    I wish to have SIL and BIL but fortunately or unfortunately, my DH is also only kid.

    We both miss sibblings. Whatever family function we attend, his and my cousins will talking to their sibblings and will be sitting with their family. Me and my DH will be all alone.

    Oh God! atleast bless us with a kid soon. So that we will come out of this lonely world
     
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    iyerponnu

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    Meena,

    I know what you mean. My husband is an only child and he always tells me that he feels jealous when he sees me and my sis together. He treats her like his little sister, nay a daughter... even though she has 2 children of her own. She likes being pampered and has found another person to pamper her :p

    As for the kids part, we both sail in the same boat Meena.... I know the pain you are going through and I sincerely hope we are both blessed soon :)

    Mythili
     
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    :hiya brahan,

    sooperb topic. wow its one wonderful relationship i cherish. honestly, never longed or wanted a brother.
    infact bro-in-law/hubby have just sons in their homes, & i find them discussing only games/ shares/politics which drives me nuts. with a sister you are more comfortable and share lots more personal things. so lucky to have a sister.
     
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    Thanks Mythli. Lets hope for the best..

    Before marriage and when we are newly married, I used to say I will have atleast 2 kids. So that my kid wont feel the lonliness as me. Ippa onnuke vazhiya kanum:bonk
     
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    iyerponnu

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    Meena, my sentiments exactly.... sometimes I tell my husband, I would be happy with just the one now :) I am sure things will work out soon...

    Never lose hope.

    Mythili
     
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