age gap

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  1. prameela

    prameela New IL'ite

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    Hi everybody,
    I m planning to be second pregnancy. But I want to know what is the right age between First child and second child? I had my daughter who is 3 year 6 months. My hubby want to delay when she is 4 years complete. Is that ok for me to become preg'y?

    Prameela.
     
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    H Prameela,

    Its purely depends on your confident level.

    Because i saw both groups like gap between 2 kids with 5yrs and just 2yrs.

    If you can manage with both kids...can spare time with both..then you can carry on. Nobody can guess the situation inside your home, you are right person to judge it.

    If you have enough support from spouse and elder one is little cooperative, you have confident that you can manageboth kids , then job is easy.

    Some say they should be atleast3-4yrs gap so that elder one will be able to do their work themselves. While i heard from few of my friends its best to have within2yrs,along with this first one the second will grow.

    Both sit&plan, see that both are on same page....All the best.:))
     
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    Dear Usha,
    Thanks from your advice.....
     

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