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Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by incarnation, Sep 16, 2010.

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  1. Sep 16, 2010 #1
    incarnation

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    who am I , I ask myself , who am I ....
    I am what parents wanted me to be ,
    I am what husband wanted me to be ,
    I am what Inlaws wanted me to be ,
    I am what boss wanted me to be ,
    I am what society wanted me to be ,
    I tried to come out , everytime ,
    But became what the next relation asked me to be ..
    Now I am a mother , Still I do not get what I want to be ,
    But I have been colored with so many colors that layers need to come out first,
    To be what I should have been...
    Time has gone away , Will I be what I had to be...
    It is sad that I am no more me...
    But somewhere it hides in me , Am I so strong in me that I will be what I should be in this anonymity

    (Here I refer to anonymity thru Web/Internet/Blogs/Indusladies)
     
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  2. Sep 16, 2010 #2
    Vidhyathan

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    Hi Incarnation,
    When you have started asking such powerful questions you are soon or already yourself. Its a start. :) Anonymity will sound silly soon. Enjoy being yourself.
     
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    incarnation

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    Thanks Vidyathan,

    I am partially what I had to be ...In this great anonymity ...
     
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  4. Sep 16, 2010 #4
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    Do you have a doubt about who you are my dear inc???...just kidding:)

    So true and so well written I think many of us try to find ourself who we are in the internet, which help us to recognise ourself.....
    I know this satisfaction doesn't last forever but atleast you feel free to express yourself and be what you want to be....
     
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    radhusankar

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    Hi incarnation
    Well written, ur words r so powerful, u know 99% of women are searching whom they are?
     
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    ramyaseenu

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    Hi incarnation

    really well written. :clap:clap . This question i think many ask themselves. As women we adapt ourselves to others and their needs be it as a daughter, sister, wife or mother that we tend to forget ourselves and our identity. Our true self is buried somewhere in the various roles we take on. It is upto us to search for that within ourself and not from other sources.

    ramya
     
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    incarnation

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    Yes Arunarc , I have a doubt , I am not kidding , I am trying to be what I am on internet also in real life I am shredding those layers ...I am yet to see the real me...

    Thanks for your response..
    -inc
     
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    incarnation

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    Thanks radhusankar to find my words powerful , I am finding my power here on internet and also that I am here without [mostly , I think so , because I have forgotten what I am by now, I have to discover myself] any layer , IL works like acid wash on me and comes out a true me

    -inc
     
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    Thanks for the claps , These are for my real me ...It accepts it with gratefulness

    -inc
     
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    Sriniketan

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    As we do adapt to so much circumstances and people, sometimes we feel the same way..but you had expressed it very beautifully.
    But in this internet world too...you can be you, but there are expectations here too na!

    sriniketan
     
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