My Life Before And After With Pets

Caide · Mar 10, 2022

1Sandhya said: ↑

Hello @Caide
I'm so used to your light and bubbly posts I didn't expect this one. Sorry to hear about your miscarriage and about the loss of your pet. Juno. That can be tough.
@Caide though you are undergoing a tough time now, don't give up on your family. This feeling of being taken for granted is very common. Ironically I'm sure each of your siblings also feel the same way. Parents have a way of talking exclusively about the absent ones making the one present invisible. You are young and life is long, longer than you realize, and there are many more 'twists' left to see and experience in this life journey.
For now I suggest you turn the page and don't waste your energy thinking about your past. What is done is done. You have a good hubby it looks like. Make a new life and new family with him and your cute pets. There are other women in this forum who were TTC for many years and are now moms. You can read their stories for inspiration. And soon I hope to see news of your child's birth announcement in the forum. Cheers to that!
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thanks ma for your suggestions.

I will never give up on my family. It's just my view and how I feel about it. And I feel so dejected because of the way things has happened. I am in contact with them and still and will ask extent my hand whenever they need me. it's just that I accept that they are broad minded and supportive but certain things are beyond my imagination. My dh is indeed a best thing that has happened in my life. His love is what keeping me running. He makes me talk with my family on continuous basis too.

As you said I am trying to be stress free as I am ttc and at times I vent things out as this. I am following the threads you have mentioned.

And making new life, i am making one from my 9 years of age as I understood this way of life and I must move on along with it.

This new life with pets and dh is really best part.

Hope i get good news too.

Thank you for reading this lengthy post and giving suggestions with kind words