Dissipiating Karma

Good that your MIL has become sober after reading the book.
Thanks for sharing positive affirmations for dissolving karmas. Will keep them in mind and try to repeat everyday.
Please share more such tips.

 

After reading this thread I got few doubts..
Suppose someone troubles us, we sometimes think bad of them or curse them in our mind..does that cause bad karma.?..or cursing someone openly ...extreme jealousy or hatred towards someone..even when not expressed openly..does it accumulate bad karma?
We do have control over our actions..we can stop ourselves from doing wrong if we know that some action is wrong..but sometimes we so not have control over thoughts or emotions..it's very very easy to think ill about someone..does this lead to bad karma..
I have some frustrations towards certain people who troubled me earlier..many times I had negative thoughts about them...
What is the pariharam or remedy for thinking bad about someone?

 

if they harmed u and u r cursing them for that, then this curse is going to definitely cause bad karma definitely in their path because i read somewhere that the curses surely affect horribly the person who is cursed--even generations are affected by it...

see i come from a very non religious and highly educated family where women did Masters even in 1970's so you can imagine my family is the one that questions everything and i am also quite non-religious but i just came across some psychic and past regression stuff n i believe in the kinds that are done by ivy league educated doctors or pyschics used by top investigative agencies..u can serach for them online and scheduel readings

...n i came across stuff that proves that curses defintely affect teh person taht is cursed and karma is definitley there...so try to do good and never harm anyone becasue same harm may not return to u but to ur progeny...karma is like that- it will hurt the cursed person at the place where it hurts the most..its like universe/God's judgement deliverance

and especially never hurt the weaker ones as the curses and karma return maginfied ...

just to tell u a real story----thsi is a true story about the family we know very well, my dad's sister is married into this family--- and it will show u how karma works...., in this very rich family, their son died in a car crash in his 30s- a very handsome dashing man- his car was hit by some drunk driver n then this family started treating their widow DIL horribly n she was forced to leave her in laws house...

for few years, this family was living happily except the loss of their son- they had all the riches, money, comforts, luxuries, world travels.

They also had a very beautiful daughter and another son who were saddended by loss of their beloved brother suddenly in the 30s but didn't care much about their sister in law who was traumatised to leave the house after she became a widow....,

then in some years, their only daughter got married to a very very rich guy who was paid a very hefty dowry n married in a very very lavish style ( the marriage was talk of the town) after spending so much money but after few months of marriage, she started getting treated horribly by her hubby to the extent that her own hubby who she loved dearly started abusing her really bad-- emotionally n sometimes physically and had an affair with another woman n started torturing her to leave the house.....

eventually she got divorced but was completely traumatised....looking at her condition her father who loved her dearly got sick and ultimately died of sickness n grief saddened by his dear daughter's life..like even after giving so many riches, wealth to her hubby, she was emotionally tormented and divorced,,,which is very sad....

after sometime, this super rich family got their daughter married again to a very rich guy ( basically of their own social status) but the same story repeated again.....for few months, this woman had a happy married life, gave birth to a child and then this second hubby also started treating her badly...n started an affair with another woman n started torturing her....so second marriage also got destroyed ---- she became a single mother...n this girl was very very pretty n rich from a very high status family but both the times, it was weirdly the same story that happened to her.....

So everyone knew that it was karma caused by the curse of the DIL that destroyed this family's happiness in the terms of destroying the 2 marriages of their dear daughter and also causing the death of the family headhold due to sickness caused by the sadness of their dear daughter ....

.this karma didn't happen in 2-3 years but after many years since the DIL was forced to leave the house and in this case see, it affected their daughter which hurt them the most....so karma may not affect the person but the karma and curse can affect their progeny theirby causing the ultimate grief....

so CURSES given by the victimised person will definitely affect the cursed person that too real bad....the women in my family who are highly educated n qualified like they did Master's even back in late 1970s n non -religious, after seeing this entire situation also started believing in curses and karma and how karma n curses can even destroy the richest and happiest person !

even in west, people have started believing in karma, ancestral curses or other curses especailly when some situations occur again n again n even money can't fix those....

 

Thanks dear for sharing this real-life story.

Stories like this need to be shared as they become strongly ingrained in our psyche and saves us time and again from committing sins/bad karmas.

 

Let me also share the story of our elders' family friends...
There was a family in our known circles in which an elderly uncle was hugely tortured by his own son and DIL. Aunty passed away even before her son's marriage. Uncle was very religious and helpful person. Immediately after hus son's marriage, son n DIL started objecting to father's charitable ways, pooja etc.

He wasn't given proper food and his essential medicines were stopped on the grounds that they were expensive and an elderly man can pass away any time.

Son n DIL are both very well educated and earn handsome money but father used to wear old dull clothes.

This continued for many months and eventually due to nonavailability of important medicines, he became very ill. My mother's elder sister and her husband went to meet him. In abject painful condition, he cried a lot and cursed his son and daughter-in-law that may God never give them kids.

After a week or so he passed away. Son never bothered to do after-death rites religiously. Father's death didn't affect him and they continued with their routine life of enjoying...partying etc.

Now..after an year or so, they started to think about planning a family. But despite all efforts, consultation with best doctors...DIL couldn't conceive. She had failed IVF @3times at 3-4 months of conception. After which she developed some problem and her docs told her not to try again as it might put her life in danger.

So after so many years of their marriage and both reproductively healthy during their initial years, they are still childless.

So, we shouldn't hurt anyone consciously and instead should always try to seek blessings of elders, poor and destitute.

 

But please note that if someone curses you out of enviousness/hatred while you're innocent then God will punish them severely and since for parents there's nothing more precious than their kids...so Kids bear the brunt of parent's wrongdoings.

 

Dear readers of this thread,
I would like to know your views on non-vegetarian food as it involves killing and hence can be grouped under bad karmas.

Please see to it that it's not a personal attack on anyone's preferential food habits but just an opinion so that we all get a better understanding on how karma works.

I'm sharing with you all my opinion. I'm strictly vegetarian by birth and by choice too. In my opinion, killing an animal or bird just to satisfy tongue is an act of cruelty and hence attracts punishments. If eating nonvegetarian was that good, then why in most holy places/teerthas/ashrams is it prohibited. All Gurus/ Spiritual Masters too consider it an act of violence. Recently read in Garuda Puran too and read long back in Srimad Bhagvata that such a diet where killing takes places attracts severe punishments.

I again seek your forgiveness. These are just my opinion which I studied and formed after a long association with exalted holy people and holy scriptures.

 

@dia3
Can you write a post without verbal diarrhea about "rich", "educated", "over educated", "ivy league", "in westernized Indians" and such usual diarrhea. Thanks