Very Indian Problems

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    Deeshieka Senior IL'ite

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    #very_indian_problem
    Nowadays the count on the rape and murder have been increasing not only in villages but also in citues. And people around were posting like only the dressing of the women cause the root to rape ..
    I really dont understand that how does a dress code influence a men to rape ? And I have read newes like 1 year child and even 60 years nun have been raped !! So the root cause is only dress ?? No it's the goddamned society ! It's the coward molesters ...!!
    Here in India the man who molests the woman or child have been accepted and can able to lead a normal life .. But what about the rape victims ???
    Still seems to be a burden of life !
    Humanity ?
    Justice ?
     
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    i assume that, we don't even have proper counselling and supporting systems for victims cope up. in our movies rape was shown as very coomon thing in 80s , 90s, now a days even for commedy on a obese dark woman (this is also another kind of discrimination on being dark) they are using that word in regional language movie. while growing kids see this and they assume it is ok etc.

    i think Pink movie can change atleast few people minds and see it from womens perspective what it is actually and how loosely thay word has been used .
     
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    Very true. Wonder, why there were so many, rape scenes/ eve teasing/slutty/ soft **** songs.
    The "bachana" scenes are unforgettable. With a hero saving the victim. Really wonder what were the directors and the writers were thinking...

    Sadly in real life, there are no hero saving the woman from eve teasing or rape.
     
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    not only villain, but some regional movies has trend that, if heroine doesnt agree, hero tie mangalsutra while she is sleeping or rape her by secretly entering into her bedroom and then she gets pregnant and lives happily with him etc I saw in movies. And they are big starts who are no.1 as hereos at that time. How can they even make something like that, leading lady accepted it, i doubt she even understands every single dialogue used in movies, as they are not from same language.
    And there are several movies, that tells it is heroism to make a woman agree for him when she doesn't like him.
    And parents take kids for movies along with them or TV is pouring everything into our living rooms.

    Sorry OP, from deviating to the original topic.
     
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    :lol:

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    :yikes::yikes:
    Actually, I saw an episode of Criminal Minds episode 13 season 4- Bloodline
    It's about a Romani family who kidnaps 10-year-old girls for their 10-year sons.. when the son is of marriable age. He would just marry the girl and the tradition continues!
     
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    May be Indian Problem:

    Matrimonial ad for a bride: I'm seeking a loving, caring, homely, beautiful, obedient and tall wife.
    Matrimonial ad for a groom: I'm a beautiful, intelligent, gentle, god-fearing and sweet girl.

    (we will exhaust all the treacly adjectives in the dictionary as pick-up lines)


    Likely Indian Problem:


    "We invented the zero. We are the richest nation in the world with G Vaidyaraj's diamonds. We are the most intelligent nation with Sudarshan Reddy's IQ"
    (With such IQ, we stopped inventing tools on how to polish the diamonds and conquer the world with our wealth and intelligence that can buy seven developed nations. We gratify ourselves with our past and future unbeatable glory through Facebook hoaxes)

    Mildly Indian Problem
    :

    "This country is going to hell in a handbasket with corruption, crime-rate, disintegration of family values"
    (Something that has survived several millennia will survive another couple of millennia whether it is travelling in a handbasket or a handbag)

    Indian Problem:

    "Recite to aunty what you learnt in school yesterday"
    "Wait, listen, I want to discuss this Amazon order with you .."

    (phone is already passed)

    "Aunty, are you there"
    "Yes, beta"
    "Eenee, meenee, minee-e, mu, katch a tuuger by the toe"

    (there's a reason why I call my friends after their kids go to sleep)

    Very Indian Problem:

    "Both my sons are in US. The elder one is in Minneapolis and the younger one is in California. They own houses. The younger one wants to launch a start-up now and is writing a book on the side. My daughter is in New Jersey, married, 2 kids. All well-settled"
    "My son is in Albuquerque and my daughter who used stay in Singapore has moved with her family to Madison"
    "All my kids are naturalized US citizens now"
    "My son is a naturalized US citizen, my daughter is still on Green Card"
    "Green Card?! That is so sad. I'm so sorry. I hope they get the citizenship soon"
    "I hope so too. If only they didn't reside in Singapore initially, they would have gotten Citizenship by now"
    "That's terrible. I will pray that their application is processed soon"

    (all this Green card conversation happens while the ladies are waiting in a queue for their Adhar card)
     
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    Taking handfuls of saunf and pocketing it after dinner at a restaurant. As though what they fed us was not enough. Or maybe coz we think it's free? Worse still, I have seen women wrap the saunf in a tissue and put it in their purse
     
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    :roflmao:especially the sugared saunf!!

    I remember I went to someone's place ages ago and the lady laid out Toothpicks - back in those days practically a rarity in India. And she confessed to having nicked it from one of those sheraton/ taj hotels... not a fee. A whole bleeping bunch!!!
     

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