DH is a Lier, what to do

Did you know about his drinking and smoking habit before marriage?
Well, your husband is right about one thing. It's very hard to get rid of this habit. Does he let you take charge of financial matters? Do you have access to know about the expenses? If you do, may be you can control his expenses for drinks and smoke. You can not cut him down completely and except him to stop overnight. If he is an addicted to alcohol and smoke for long time, stopping all of a sudden may also have impact on his health. So one step at a time. I advice both of you to get professional (see a doctor) help regarding this. But it will only help if your husband cooperates.

 

I agree with Archanap, if he is addicted to Drinking and Smoking you need to seek professional help you cannot take it upon urself to correct him.
Let him know you will be co-operative and supportive as long as you see that he is making an effort towards de-addicting himself.
The lies unfortunatly comes with his wanting to hide behind his addictions and not be confronted for it. You need to treat him like a rebellious teenager, be gentle but assertive.

 

The core problem is not lie, its his drinking and smoking.
I still believe that he may not be a lier in other aspects.
Is there any option to get the recovery treatment? like counseling etc?
Believe me, he is adding up the risk of his liver issues.
Few things may be a good idea if possible:
Try to have him more literature about the alcohol and liver issues
Have him watch some videos(on youtube?) about this issue
Talk to your family doctor whom he trusts a lot, ask your doctor to teach your husband a good lesson about the liver damage, even you go as far as the false reporting of his liver was damaged etc.

Good luck... I know this issue may result in some additional future issues, you are really on time to nail it down real early.. all the best

 

you said your husband has alcohol and smoking addiction problem. You need to encourage him to see a psychiatrist trained in drug deaddiction. No other medical professional is qualified. Counselling, telling him to stop etc will not work. Its not his fault he drinks and smokes. its a disease. He needs treatment and cure with medications. One of my cousins had it and was admitted in a deaddiction unit under supervision of a psychiatrist 2 yrs ago and he is now treated completely. Without professional help, it will be a lifelong problem.