Your first love to your spouse....

On a lighter note, I just wish to take all of you to a romantic mood.:coffee

It doesn't matter how old you are, or how long since you are married. All what matter is to keep reminding the most beautiful moments of your life... Cherishing it, and celebrating it. arty

This helps a lot in rebuilding your relationship with your spouse no matter how fragile it is now. I am sure, you will definitely see a positive change either in you or in your spouse soon. :thumbsup

Ok.. coming to the topic now:cheers

Tell me about your love story in a few lines.:cheers

When did you meet your Mr. Right, and how did you feel about it.
How do you feel right now about your choice?:thumbsup or Witsend

 

Re: Your first love

Well, starting it from my own story

I met him in a coffee shop near to our college in 2004. We used to go there since we hated our canteen coffee that much, and sometimes it was also refreshing to sit outside of your college.

I occasionally see him working as a waiter there, liked his handsome looks, and my friends used to tease me for falling for a road side guy despite of my rich background. But I never fell for him nor did I have interest on him. Just liked him for his looks only.

Not even once he noticed me during all those months despite of our secret hints and giggles at him. That in fact attracted me the most.

One day, for a change when I took a bus (I usually go to college by car or my dad pick me up most of the time) from my college to home I also met this guy siting in a seat, and offered that seat for me. Then eventually he sat next to me when other passenger got down from the bus at his stop.

We traveled together for nearly 45 mins from that point, and had a very open but general discussion. That very moment made us become best friends, catching up on a regular basis after my college times, and spending some quality times together.

I helped him through my dad to find a good job in a firm (as he had completed Bsc then) and then helped him to complete his Msc too. He was with me during all these while as a best buddy but just as a friend.

In 2007, when my dad decided to marry me off to some guy from Australia, I started missing him so badly even though he was with me all the time.
That very missing feeling reminded me the word called LOVE. Yes, that's where I've fallen for him.. his qualities, and everything.

I proposed to him. He initially rejected citing so much of reasons, mainly he doesn't want to disappoint my dad. But I was too adamant in getting him, and one fine day he openly agreed and expressed his love for me.

I felt extremely happy to hear that he had fallen for me when we were travelling in that bus together on 31 Oct 2004 itself, but hided everything within him by thinking he can't be a good husband to a girl like me.

With the blessings of both parents, we got married in late 2007, and now living happily with a child.

Despite of various hiccups, I still find my love in the heights of everything as it is very powerful to bring our hearts together no matter how we distanced from each other.

 

Thanks for sharing your story... it's interesting

Similar thing happened in our case too... On the valentines of 2005, when I sent him a friendship SMS he didn't reply for the whole day. Didn't even pick the call as if he was offended with that SMS, which was partly love, partly friendship message. You know, even if someone rejects, you can still escape saying it was a friendship SMS.

But later confessed as he was totally disturbed looking at my message, since he loved me but felt he should never propose his love to me as he thought that I treat him as a best friend only. He felt so upset for whatever the reasons, although tempted to reply, he somewhat hided his feelings.

Those long hide and seek days were superb..