You See What You Want To See

HariLakhera · Oct 22, 2019

SGBV said: ↑

@HariLakhera

I liked everything that you have mentioned above. Yours are very valid points.
However, I am not sure how relevant they are to my OP & the discussion above.

People compromise, sacrifice and do a lot, so that they could accommodate others into their life, or in some cases this is the strategy to be able to fit into someone's else's life.
That's a different issue.
Like my mom lives with me happily despite of the differences we have. The differences are our perceptions about how we see the world, and nothing about each other.

I am a positive thinker. I have a best buddy who is a negative thinker. We complement each other as great friends.
We see the world very differently. I find an opportunity in every obstacle I face and she finds an obstacle in every opportunity she gets.
But we are together, and it takes loads of adjustment to be together.
Nevertheless, we have not changed the way we see the world, because we see what we want to see!
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This is what I said:
"Accomodation, compromises, respect for others point of view, agreeing to disagree and staying united matters"
And this is exactly what both of you are doing.

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