Dear All, Today I want to share few of my feelings and waiting for your valuable responces. I am a married working (IT) lady (age: 25 years, Married: 1 year back) staying in Hyd. Mine is love marriage and there is no financial support for us. We both (me n DH) has to work. We are having a loan to clear. As you people know, if both the couple are working means how could be the situation to maintain the family and responsibilities. I am a lady from middle class family with good relations and responsibilities. Now the thing is, I was un-satisfied with this busy life. Till now we didn't planned for kids bcoz of my job. I dont want to leave my kids on somebody else to take care. I dont want to miss them for this job. I want to look over them bcoz its my first duty. Somany are suggesting that, leave kids with in-laws or put in day-care. But my feeling is, "now a days people are earning for their kids but they don't have time to take care of their kids"...... what's the use???? Wife's first duty is to take care of the family and Mother's first duty is to take care of her child. Correct me, if I am wrong. So, I was thing of any home based job or any home based business. So that I can takecare of my family and I can earn. Before promoting from Wife to Mother role, I want to make a good earning plan for my future. Please try to understanding my feelings and give suggestions. Thank you..