Why MIl can not be mother

Neerja I would sy you are thinking too much specially about future!
I mean this post started as a topic why mil can't be mother then u shared your thoughts that you want to be a good mil may be deep down your heart you want that your dil' n you share a relationship like mother n daughter, well I would say there is no need to think so much. If you are a good mother to your sons n know when to draw a line you will get along with your dil', the problems come when mils interfere in their sons n dil' life , its not that they are always wrong but sometimes it is good to give freedom to our kids to let them take their decisions. More over you have to remember that by the we guys become Mil's things would have changed even more. And please don't think when I say mil its only a guys mom , even girls parents need to know this
My sincere advice to you would be that don't try to be the mother of your dil' , just be a good mom to your son n a nice human being to your dil' n things would work out

And yeah every one who posts here does not have a lalita pawar as mil , I have said a lot of time in many forums here that I do have a good mil and we share good bonding but that also includes that she is my dh s mom , intact a good mom who knows when to draw a line. She has two daughters of her own n does not need a third one but she would surely be happy with a dil' with whom she can get along

Just remember when you r trying to be nice to your future dill don't overdo ur affections that they feel choked