Why divorce rate is increasing in India day by day?

Work pressure or stress increased double on working women means they work in the same environment,stress,pressure in office and still when they came back to home they need to do house work. They just can't sit relax(stretching their legs) in front of TV and enjoy. So its double on them but No men don't want to change. Whereas in the family men can feel for this they can live a happy peaceful married life. Same is for housewives they are staying at home that doesn't mean one should treat them as a doormat and just give them orders.

 

Very well said ShilpaMa
Yes working women are getting insurance policies in their name and keeeping husband and kids as nominee.. whilst their husband might be reared to keep only mother as nominee in any policy/ bank account they open
YA same thing happened with my friend her hubby died by heart attack. Her husband didn't allowed her to do job after marriage. She was a housewife for 7yrs after marriage and has a kid around 6yrs old age when her husband died. After his demise her in-laws wanted her to come with them to stay at village. And they started asking her to show them the papers of their house and insurance policies etc etc. They said we will sell the house and you come to stay with us. They wanted to make sure what is their share in it. If such case happens what will Housewife end up with? If her husband assigned his parents as nominees then how their wife and kid will suffer. No one knows how long their life is? For avg Indian men it is easy to remarry after their wife's death but its not at all easy for widows to take a decision to marry again. I saw many women prefer to stay as a single mother than to remarry again. And also think how long she has to survive.
In case if my friend was ready to go to stay with her in laws in village from metro city how she was able to raise her kid there. My friend was decided not to go with her in laws and I gave her support in her decision. Now she was struggling to make her kid's future secure and happy. My God's grace she is educated and after doing a lot of struggle for 5 to 6 months she got a job as a teacher in school and got a safe working environment too . But She is struggling to manage all her expenses and savings in very low salary. Her parents and brothers are supporting her now. But why Husband can't think of this???? This situation can arise in anyone's life.

 

I feel No this is not the case exactly. Husband and other family members are not willing to accept this fact and accordingly make a change in them. They fail to help her at the front in the battle of life. She is struggling for her empowerment but other people either don't want this or they want this but not willing to help much in this.

 

Yes this thread is not to support Divorce or not against divorce or not to abandon marriages. This thread is 'to make a change' This thread is to discuss what a husband wants from wife and vice versa. So that through discussions we can judge ourselves and can make +ve changes in our thinking and acts and this will lead to a better understanding of "What marriage is all about'"