Hi Girls, These are thethings that had happened in the past week. We are havingpr for abroad. My h expected that he will get a job from his client Co. Itself.But his guess went wrong and he has to resign his job and he resigned last week.He got upset as, he have to spend money from savings for home expences, flightexpence, and bare all expences in abroad(may be approx. for 2 months) untill hegets a job. Last Saturdaywe went to temple and i purchased some God stickers for Rs.70. He get irritatedand asked why u r wasting money for such things. In my point of view its notwaste. I liked those picture, so i bought. Then we get off from temple and westarted our journey by bike. These r the arguments took place between us then: He: i wonteven get salary for this month.(anyhow he is going to get all the accumulated amountfor salaries, pf, etc while leaving Co.) . Then why u r spending money irresponsibly?(irresponsible??? .. its only his imagination) Me: if itswaste, u r spending money for samosas, biscuits,snacks, etc at yr officecanteen. Is thats very much worth of spending money? He: i amearning; i am spending; who r u to ask that? Me: (i gotvery angry of his reply and increased my voice) So, as i am not earning, i don’thave any rights to spend yr money? Then why u marry me? Why didn’t u go for aworking girl? Ok, from u keep an account of spending money for me andmy kid. I will return yr money after i got a job and start earning. If u r thismuch anxious and worried of coming out of the safe zone, then why u leave yrjob? Go and get back yr resignation letter. We can live within safe zoneitself. No need to go to abroad. He: (then hestarted saying excuses) no no. U took it in wrong way. I didn’t said in thatmeaning. Me: No. I knowu. This is the thing in yr heart. Now it has came out of yr mouth. He stoppedbike in road side and started shouting at me, not even caring its public. Me andMy kid are sitting in bike. Suddenly he kicked the bike and it fell down. I managedand get down taking my kid. Its a shock for me. All r looking us. What kind of jemam he is? He: ok. Get onthe bike. We will continue our fight at home. Me: no. I wontcome with u. (i know, within four walls, the situation will become more worse. Hewill start beat me like a goose. Deep heartedly i feel tobe in public as safe. Itsmy married life???:rant:rant) He waited forsometime and he went off. I walked to a nearby park and sit at the platformbefore it. After 30mins. He called said sorry and all kinds of excuses. So iwent with him. After thatagain he is showing his original face by saying, “ if yr father is alive, heitself will beat u with shoes for spending money unnecessarily”. Here problem1: his character. Problem 2: only hereafter we have to spend more for purchasing all items from dresses, kitchenitems, things that are cheapest here/not available at abroad, etc. How he is goingto manage without any problems?