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When you and your spouse fight, do you hit eachother?

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by lahoreny, Mar 14, 2013.

  1. lahoreny

    lahoreny Senior IL'ite

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    When couples fights, sometimes the argument keeps on going and it doesn't stop. Have you ever hit your spouse or has your spouse hit you????
     
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    smritisinha Platinum IL'ite

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    No never!

    Hitting is a complete no-no in any relation (except siblings :evil:)
     
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  3. Maggie2009

    Maggie2009 Gold IL'ite

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    hell, no. verbal barbs are good (or bad) enough
     
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    Ragini25 Platinum IL'ite

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    lahoreny, And then one of you will be on IL, creating a new thread!
     
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    Wondergirl137 Gold IL'ite

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    One person hitting the other or both hitting each other is the start of the end of marriage. Its shows disrespect and that one is taking the other for granted.
    I am in fact against inflicting any sort of physical torture (slapping/pinching ears etc) to even kids to discipline them. Am sure there are thousand other ways to tackle what we try to tackle with hitting the other person.
     
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    kylie Gold IL'ite

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    Never.....if your fight/argument ends up in blows then it is better to stay separate. A man or woman hitting each other signals the end of love and respect in their relationship.
     
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    Endlesshope Platinum IL'ite

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    Yes sometimes we have hand wrestling, kick boxing matches to settle the score :coffee
     
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    ivlakshmi Platinum IL'ite

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    Lol ..i fell if guy hits and u are ok to hit back then its fine:)
     
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    pari80 Silver IL'ite

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    I find even shouting at each other during quarrel or disagreement painful than obviously some how hitting each other is out of question. If couple reaches that point where fights/arguments results in hitting than as well please end this relationship.

    I would never give "ending relationship" advice to anyone but in this scenario as well do that because you don't have respect for each other.
     
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    guesshoo IL Hall of Fame

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    Whoa! No! No! No! It is physical abuse. Wrong on so many levels...
     
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