I should thank this forum and the ladies reading my posts. I was tired of being unable to vent this all out. Had i discussed with DH, am very sure he would have supported be from Day 1 itself. It was me who chose to stay quiet and deal with her. But now, am DONE. I felt so bad to vent it out here because this is a forum where majority come and share their problems and ere I am ranting ! But I must admit I felt very light after posting it here, like a huge weight taken off my heart and mind. True. If there was anyone with me through all the times - good and bad, in crowd and loneliness - then its Him. He proved that HE chose me and that I did not choose Him. She understands that I cant ignore her so easily so she pinches my weak points. Now with the help of DH i am learning to ignore her and mind my own business. I learnt and understood the fact that I have the right to have peace in my home, life and thoughts and do NOT need to give place for her thoughts. Very very very true. To learn such things is what I am here for. So yes I need all your support and help.