what is the real meaning of the word trust in a marraige

misba · Nov 16, 2012

do u think tht allowing husband to let him do wht ever he want is means trusting him , when u very well having a doubt tht he is doing something wrong , hideing thinks with his wife , showing interest in others and wife telling nothing is this the real meaning of showing trust on her husband
is she ask anything she is blamed of not trusting, inspite of he behaving very suspiciously, very rudely , a sudden change in his behaviour all this after feeling she is not suppose to ask is she does she is not trusting ,
i dont understand why always ladies have to suffer, keep quite , bare everything and result she has to trust
she has to bare the fact tht her husband is not loyal but she has to trust

insha · Nov 16, 2012

There is nothing wrong in not trusting him when there is sudden change in his behaviour and actions..A wife's duty is not only to trust her DH but also to guide him and help him in all aspects of life when there are issues.And a couple should not behave in a suspicious way making the other one doubt.

Anitap · Nov 16, 2012

Trust and verify.

Eraser · Nov 16, 2012

Answer is No; you don't have to trust him.
Situation like this demands you not to lose your control, try to remain calm and measure everything. People hiding stuff or in denial mode try to irritate partners so as to divert. They tend to use words like trust, promise, love etc., or show emotions like anger. Be smart not to be over taken by any emotions / drama.
Trust is fine until suspicion arise!