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  1. Feb 8, 2012 #21
    justanothergirl

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    I agree..but u see...perspectives are different. For you having children is very imp and for ur DH financial stability might be paramount. He might think "I let her have her way for staying home even when it means that the pressure is all on me to be the only bread winner. Having given her her freedom why cant she give me mine? A.k.a have kids when I am ready."
    There is no right or wrong.
     
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    SSC

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    I was almost typing out the same reply to Tanoshii, JAG! Very well said.
     
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    tanoshii

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    That is very crisp and clean. I especially agree with the highlighted part.
    Its not who wears the pants, its who ever is able to deal with the current situation amicably for both.
     
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    tanoshii

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    I agree. I also agree that in his case stability matters more. That is how he may think. Fine.
    When we are stable, have been for quite some time now, prioritising finance over family just seems like a whole different path to me, something I can choose not to follow (in my own right), but am not given that choice either. Anyway, that is just my case and I do see what you mean here. Thanks :)
     
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  5. Feb 16, 2012 #25
    myde

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    Hi all , thanks for suggesting girls . It was a gr8 help indeed. As a matter of fact ,my hubby is already helping me in kitchen .

    Lesson learnt - complaining girls will never win . :)Stay calm and do as as much u can . Don't overstrain !!!!!

    Btw 21 golden rules was an excellent issue :)
     
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