In laws are here for close to 2 months now. From the day they are landed, FIL is absolutely fine but where as MIL only talking to her son and grandchild. I am trying my best to talk to her and make her comfortable if at all she is uncomfortable with me. As kids are home for summer break, this is the first time in my kids life they are staying home and sleeping and waking up late. I am really really thankful to In laws. because of them, kids are eating and sleeping properly. I really owe them for taking care of my kids (of course their grand children). Every day I wake up around 5am. Before me and my husband head out to office at 7am, we cook breakfast and lunch, kids lunch then clean the sink and every minute task that we can complete before we both leave to office. As soon as I am home, I wont sit down straight to kitchen to handle dinner stuff. She helps me with cutting veggies. since a week she is cooking curry for dinner, I really appreciate it. But that doesnt mean that I got to stay out of kitchen. there will be some or other tasks once I go home. so far so good right. Here is the issue: Due to some old and recent issues, SILs stopped talking to me. Where as I didnt know they are not talking to me, I was wishing them on occasions in family group and I was normal with my behavior. But I drastically changed due to their inhuman behavior, my husband also aware of it (dont want to talk about it now) so I totally stopped calling them but message in family group.When in laws were shopping back in India SILs helped them, then when I was asking over the phone about the details about the saree or something there wont be response. First few calls I thought its signal problem, I am not hearing them. but later realized they dont want to talk so they are quite , or they used to give to MIL. If my dh is on the phone they tell him color, cloth,etc. I have completely ignored them and MIL's behavior. But whole heatedly I was waiting for In laws, thats how I am treating them. But MIL has completely stopped talking to me for no reason. In front of dh she acts normal. But where as me, I am keep talking to her no matter of her response. She dont even care what/ how I am doing. She pretends I don't exists in that home. I have no clue why she is acting that way. I am not letting slip any cooking or cleaning work to her. But in 13 years of married life I really made my self very comfortable and be my self in their presence. Might be she is not liking I am free, or she is not happy I am not talking to her daughters...or I have no clue. Every day she talks to them for hours, I have no absolute issues with that. As long as she is happy and taking rest - I am happy. BTW, husband is taking very very good care of her, just like a 5yr old kid. mom eat more, mom drink little water, mom stretch legs in the car on hand rest. Mom sleep for sometime - just like a baby. where as I am fully taking care of kids, so he can spend full time with them. Taking them outside the maximum and trips are going on. I have no freaking clue, why she is like that. What are your suggestions? Ask her , what is bothering her? Just leave the bee hive untouched?