most of conflicts starting here only in some families, only once or twice they cook and start to give suggestions to us which make us angry... Two (many) cooks in kitchen spoils the broth goes the aphorism. But two (young or old ?) couple in kitchennett - food never gets cooked or it turns into potpourri. Thanks and Regards. God - for me - East Or West - Curd Bath (Rice) is best ever with thadka by spouse.