I All, Just wish to discuss some things . Today my story for the day . My hubby came @ 2 pm today since here the chirtmas holidays are there so I he came early. He was very happy then I made lunch gave him and he went to his bed .Then off the rouintine started he started watching some movie form 2- 6 then after 6 he started reading a book now it 11 here he is still busy .He always shows reluctancu toward talking about anything .I want to ask how ppl behave in a normal relationship Does hubby always are like that less taltative etc .Seld engrossed type people .I got bored all the day .Whener i go to his room and talk something like today I started some discussion baout the recent shoba de book.He said and poured out some few things out of his mouth and then went back .Whenever I start discussing about anything may be the budget etc I am always looked as if I am stupid or dumm.He didnt even listen to me on tht topic. He just made some silly remark and went back to his book .All the time I am trying making some plans etc to make it okay between us . whenver I go to his room he shows least reluctancy to respond atleast in a + manner what eevr I say . I talk all tht time @ home to get my his frustation out .To which he says never seen such a emotionally dep girl what is this ? Is my role to be just the maid of the house cook food and nothing else take care of the house etc .Y doesnt he also feels the same that this girl also needs some company .Y only I should always change ? He always says if case I am angry about his that no person can ever watch movies etc or do things in this house .. U are or behave like boss . In case u get bored etc be an adult and try to do anything to keep yourself busy . and says go to india in case u feel so bored here ? Whts all this ? I threw all things away to keep upto him his expectations of cooking , cleaning etc of the house and his is what I get in return ? What should I do ?