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Trouble in Paradise - Again!!

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by tanoshii, Jan 23, 2012.

  1. riyagan

    riyagan Gold IL'ite

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    tanoshii, do u think counselling will work? since he says that he needs you he has to agree with consulting a psychiatrist/counselor who is specializing in this area.
     
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    tanoshii Platinum IL'ite

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    Thanks for your reply Riyagan. We tried that with our GP here. Fortunately my doctor here is a lovely person. As caring as my own dad would be and I asked him to counsel my husband. I do see some changes in him lately. But yes, its going dead slow and at times he's like this very troublesome 5 year old who wants what he wants and does not care about the rest.

    I have been reading many many posts on this forum and am trying to turn away from some stuff that trouble me at home. I also learned that being at it with him won't get me anywhere. I guess its all up to me how I handle this. And changing myself or I should say, distracting myself is making me feel better. I really can't afford to get stressed with some of my fertility treatment going forward. So the more I ignore him, the more he seems pulled to me and my feelings. Fingers crossed, just hoping things would get better soon.

    I must thank loads of people on this forum. Its made a big difference in the way I think about a lot of things and in some ways I surprised myself as to what changes I can invoke in me. Am really grateful for it. :)
    I also got to learn a lot from looking at what trouble others face with their lives. This feels rather petty against most :)
     

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