What things would you do ur you were not afraid? Perhaps we can add to it when we think of something. Will give us, and other new way of thinking I'll start 1. Have Father-Daughter trip to India for month. Forget about the fraud. Forget about betrayal. Forget about trying to get me married right now. Just visit places, wear pretty dresses, attend get-togethers. Allow me to sit and do plein air painting. 2. Paint whatever I want in office mess hall, rather than hiding so I'm not influenced by what others want me to paint. Nor am I scared about turning down unwanted commission. Sometimes NO is best answer. 3. Get smarter about growing money. 4. Apart from actively taking care of Dad's health, shadow a Doctor to appreciate this field. 5. Go up to a young man and say "hello". 6. Politely decline sweets or tasty treats from coworkers.