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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by rissy, Jan 4, 2012.

  1. rissy

    rissy Silver IL'ite

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    The below words are really amazing.... If everyone understands this I think all will have very happy married life... Please take a time to read this!

    Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry with these facts as well.

    Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are; Who is earning almost as much as you do;

    One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;

    One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies, preparations of entrance exams and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements…

    One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;

    One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home as her home, your family as her family, your name and surname behind her name and even your ways & lifestyle…

    One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, one who is expected to wake up before the sun rise and before every family members in the morning, while you sleep, she tries hard to fit her in new circumstances, environment and that kitchen.........

    One, Who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,a wife, a heart winning daughter-in-law, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;

    One who is expected to NOT complaint when her husband irrationally puts his family first before her while ideally when a guy chose to marry someone he is obligated to put his wife's needs first because marriage involves commitment....

    One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;

    Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise

    One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;

    One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her..

    One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

    But not many guys understand this...

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    P.S. - The above words aren't mine, I read it in some thread on facebook and just wanted to share here. Pls give your views and inputs. Thanks
     
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    just20 Silver IL'ite

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    Its all true...
     
  3. satchitananda

    satchitananda Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    If only young men were told all this before they stepped into marriage, there would be less unhappy women in the world.
     
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    riefa Bronze IL'ite

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    rissy...very nice saying, isnt it?
    Few months back i read this in someone's blog while searching for recipe,,couldnt recall which. Thanks for posting, its encouraging.
     
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    paanzaa Silver IL'ite

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    where is the patience to go through life...Material things matter more than the bonds...So disappointment prevails!
     
  6. rissy

    rissy Silver IL'ite

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    Thanks one and all,
    Thanks Riefa, actually this post will just be appreciated by the women and only in indusladies. I just see someone posted this in facebook in one group and saw all comments how much guys are picking on her for posting this. If guys can't even accept this, then how they might be treating their wife. Very sad. This words will only listened here, I don't dared to post it in my fb coz I think guys might pick on me
     
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    rissy Silver IL'ite

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    But how many men are willing to accept, admit and appreciate it. If someone (lady) try telling this, they will be projected as too much demanding. Or they will have to face a counter argument -- do you expect us to be 'zoru ka ghulam"
     
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    indus2 Senior IL'ite

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    You must be kidding me !!!
     
  9. satchitananda

    satchitananda Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    ????? Meaning the original post or do you mean this one?

    Rissy, FB is not the best forum to bring about this awareness (at least not for the majority of men). This awareness has to be brought into young people even as they are growing up and has to be brought about in an appropriate way - may be through examples, stories - by people in responsible positions meaning parents, teachers ..... Just the way we teach kids other values like honesty, responsibility ...., we also need to teach children to learn to treat all human beings with respect and empathy.
     
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    rissy Silver IL'ite

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    Are you telling me, kidding, in what sense?

    To me it seems like you didn't like the post. Well its up to you to like or not. But men will be men. Most men will not like this, as it is mentioned in the last line of the write-up, not many guys understand this
     

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