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The "travails of being an Indian woman"

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  1. Nov 9, 2012 #251
    fencesitter

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    one cant live others life.so give suggestions/advices/etc and leave it at that.
     
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    sdiva,

    You have a perfect life,perfect family,perfect childhood,perfect everything,lucky you.Other women who have problems in their life should step up and stand for themselves,every woman here agrees to that and suggests that,nobody says ah poor you and leave it at that,if you take any thread and look at the posts in it,women here often suggest stepping up,being brave,speaking for themselves..
    And nobody wished bad things for you,we dont even know you,you say if you were in those women's position you would act differently,that my dear is easier said than done.How can you say that unless you have walked in their shoes? We dont know how we will respond to a bad situation,we can only be prepared.
     
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    Women come to this forum to get a second opinion,to see what women who have experienced similar problems to theirs have to say.Nothing about misery loving company!You are being very judgemental!
     
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    May be its time we all move on....Folks have made their point. Diva has read it. Give her some time ...Ganging up and harping on the same point will make her more and more defensive and is no different from bullying.
    ...:my2cents
     
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    JAG, how much time? the first time she got personal, people called her out on it. it's been several days since that, then she comes on and says bye,nothing in common. then another time, with a full on personal attack post on Riya123 and her child. it's just not kosher to use someone's personal issues from other posts, keep harping on it and even making a long winded ignorant post on it! not to mention other ridiculousness about misery, compassion and other irrelevant stuff.

    if you don't have something in common. truly move on.
     
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    How and whom do I request for this thread to be closed?

    I am generally against the closing of any thread, but this needs to be closed asap.

    Since Satchi is not mod any more, whom should I send the PM to requesting deleting of some posts from today and closing of thread?

    Thanks.
     
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    you might try emailing/PM the ILadmin.
     
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    Thank you. All of us have made our points very well. I will not be commenting on this particular topic anymore.
     
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    A good way to deal with this is to report the post. There is a report post button under every post. The moderators can then take action on that.
     
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