Techies pls help

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  1. burningsoul

    burningsoul New IL'ite

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    Dear all

    I have a doubt that can anyone check/stalk/see what I am doing on my Laptop if he has the network password and the laptop safety password.using other computer in the network

    I am using my hubby's old laptop and I doubt if he is stalking on me?Sometimes he behaves as if he knows what is in my mind ie what I am posting on this site ,and what/to whom I am sending mail via gmail. But he doesn't know my email /FB/IL password. I usually delete my browsing history everyday .

    But he never takes the laptop or checks it .
     
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    mstrue New IL'ite

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    There are tools that enable remote viewing from one to another. There are also remote solutions that can be configured in such a way that there will be no indication that someone has proxied in. It boils down to matter of rights once he has the right tool. Your computer is on the domain and if your H has the administrator password for network/laptop, then he has full control over the domain.
    If you are wary of this possibility, try to avoid your laptop and use a trustworthy friend's system or may be pcs in libraries etc.
     
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    lochu Gold IL'ite

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    First change your password on the sites (fb/il and email ) and make sure its impossible to guess the password .Check if your laptop has any Remote control tools installed like pcanywhere ,keylogger software etc .When he is taking control of your laptop you will see a slight flickr in your monitor screen and mouse pointer will be flickering for a min .
     
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    SriVidya75 Platinum IL'ite

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    or is it that it really is a coincidence..that he is able to guess whats going on in your mind :)
     
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    Hi,

    Yes. Its very easy to find what you are doing in your system without knowing your passwords. A simply spyware tool or keylogger can record everything that you type in your system and the same can be monitored from a different laptop. This is called Remote Spyware. Such software tools are very cheap like 40 dollars .. There are also keystroke detection hardware that can be fixed to your system and whatever you do in your system can be check from any other laptop/computer. Just google for remote spyware .. You will get all the information you need. No matter how many passwords or user id you change, the other person can simply find it out. Its better you start using a different system if you find your husband monitoring you.

    Also, find out the root cause of his suspicion and eliminate his fears rather than hiding and doing things behind.
     
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    ivlakshmi Platinum IL'ite

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    Hi,
    It is easy to monitor if he has remote destop option set up (more over he has ur network password)...or else he can also install a key logger and note what u are doing.
     
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    pretty84 New IL'ite

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    What will happen if a husband happen to know about wife's computer/ internet acitivity? You can do any damn thing that you wish, the person on the other end wathces you is your husband..don't get confused.
     
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    Hi Pretty84,
    I would like to make a small suggestion, please not to judge anyone without complete facts/background info..
    Please read through the previous posts of OP before concluding/commenting on pschological imbalance...
     
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    burningsoul New IL'ite

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    OMG!! OMG!! OMG!!
    I have experienced it many times ...the flickering !!!!:bonk:bonk:bonk
     
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    burningsoul New IL'ite

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    Googled remote spyware and found its POSSIBLE !!!:bonk

    Is there any way that I can detect /find ,such as a spyware is installed in my laptop ?
    Sorry if my qstn is dumb, i dont have a techy background ..
     
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