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Social Drinking ??

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by nolife, Jun 6, 2019.

  1. Hopeless4lyf

    Hopeless4lyf Senior IL'ite

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    See for us I was okay with him having a beer or two once a week or twice a week when we went out for dinner. But A. He started taking advantage of it. B. He would make up for not drinking much by getting drunk or close to drunk when he got with a friend. And that's what ruined the idea of drinking. I am primarily American raised so I understood drinking was part of the culture. But hell even my white colleagues and all said gone are the days of getting wasted now. After certain again it's different priorities. n my husband's priorities would change for a day or two and then go back which is why I highly recommend to all singles if you are in a relationship please figure out appropriate measures of drinking and such habits.
     
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    Angela123 Silver IL'ite

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    My husband would get together with friends have a drink or two nowadays. But he has told me about his college days were he was drunk and wasted. But he doesnt do that anymore. Also, I am not against him having a few drinks when friends come over or when we visit friends. Also at work place, where there are drinks, he would do one beer or something. Even though I do not drink, I like to make cocktails/or other hard drinks and snacks for them too. But they would never have had a drunk and irresponsible party. we do these with a few friends we are really comfortable with.
     
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    Hopeless4lyf Senior IL'ite

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    See to me that seems completely reasonable and acceptable. I would go as far as saying I would enjoy making it for someone else even if I didn't take part in it because it was done in moderation and gracious manner.
     
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