I agree to this. My h has been doing this for past 5 years, and more so since 3 years. Partly because my in laws makes hom feel guilty and also that his sisters H only listens to his mom, hits his soster, ill treats her etc. his mom has PhD degree in politics . since my daughter is born 2&1/2 years back he does not sleep with us, does no talk, no resp, doesnt know which day care my child goes to, if we are sick he doesnt care, he started his executive mba wo consulting at home, expects me to take his parents around when they visit etc. i stopped cooking for him 1&1/2 years back or caring for him. I started going out with my daughter alone wo informing him. NOTHING CHANGED HIM. .. Yeh i am emotionally connected to him still ( indian fool woman) so its depressing could not leave... dont know what to do in this situation. But just want to guide that i have taken further steps of not cooking, caring be myself but that doesnt change H.