Should I Stay Or Should I Go...

What would happen if you keep everything in the table and ask him to selfserve

 

The US of A us home sweet home for me. I came here on a fellowship as a visiting PhD student and found my way to the academic ivory tower. Because I was away from my family, I could make my own decisions. Buying a car (just walking in the dealership and buying without any bargain...oh naive me) to buying my first home, marrying an American, planning my wedding..... I have learned so much in this country. I really grew mentally, spiritually, and emotionally. I no longer need people to make me happy...I am happy (if course my lovely children are there to make me happier). America, true to its name, provided me every opportunity to be successful, to be ME.
I can talk to my family and friends whenever I want, I am there for them emotionally when they need me or I need them. I grew up an atheist house so don't care for temple/ religious festivals. Always celebrated all different festivals and still do.
I might be a minority but hey very grateful for all that USA has provided me (including my wonderful husband).

 

Too much

 

Thanks BhumiBabe for your tthread. Finally I 'm hearing it from the 2nd gen. I'm sick and tired of hearing ..." I want to go back to India, but I don't know when that's going to happen.." Go or Stay but live peacefully wherever you are.

 

If I were you I would repeatedly put food on table for self serve till ur husband tires of throwing fits and nagging . Persistence pays. But seriously this is too much. I am South Indian married to one and I can tell you this is not the norm these days atleast in the current generation.