I agree with all that you say. But how to mend relations with people when nothing has happened? I never had a row with any of them. They refuse to communicate with me. I have tried in WhatsApp groups and met them in functions I could attend but it doesn't work. Now I have stopped trying. They want a one way thing...that I keep praising them and they keep insulting me. Yes I am very angry and hurt. This is not the only incident. A lot happened and a lot of nonsense was said to me by people. For some reason they seem to think that I don't do a thing for my parents. When I called .my uncle's on my dad getting serious I heard one of them tell my sister that he was surprised to hear me call!!! He thought my sister would be the one to call. I don't call them as we have not had relations with them for years before my marriage. But now everything is being distorted to make me look bad. It's very complicated and I don't know how to put it down here. Basically I am the person to put the blame on for anything that goes wrong. My sister is not letting my mother come and visit me also. She needs someone to take care of her house and daughter. My Mom is happily her slave. It's confusing and I doubt you will understand how all that is related. I have many issues.