Long story short, we have a custom of mil giving a jewellery when dil comes to their house for the 1st time. For me she gave a gold chain which i use to put my mangalsutra (note: our's was a love marriage). Later for her 2nd dil (arranged) she gave a diamond necklace. I dint feel it rite but raised it with my fil and asked him why this partiality. He comfortingly replied that it was no partiality but this time around they had time and could arrange everything whereas in our case it was all in a hurry. I smiled and agreed, but it has always been in my mind that they see me and my family in differently. Couple of years have passed they now see my true nature and are bondingly well (they are having too many problems with the 2nd dil). Couple of months back mil vouluntarily came and told me i ll give you some gold as we did less for you, you should make some jewellery out of it. It put a huge smile on my face ) its been sometime she said that but no mention on it since then. I want your opinion on whether I should ask or not and if yes, how i should bring this up. it is not about money, so please dont mention it. its like an old skeleton i want to put to rest. I cant just let go of it. i want to score even for various reasons. i speak very openly with her and she does the same, but am not able to bring this up and ask her (feeling a lil awkward).. please give me your ideas.