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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Independentgal, Nov 21, 2019.

  1. Sunshine04

    Sunshine04 Platinum IL'ite

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    isnt this crazy??
     
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  2. Independentgal

    Independentgal Senior IL'ite

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    I did it for my older one.I thought she shouldnt be alone in this country if something happens to either of us.Having issues with my husband and having the second one are 2 seperate things for me. It is a pressure for couple of years but eventually things will fall in place.
     
  3. Independentgal

    Independentgal Senior IL'ite

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    If he is ok with it,I will be happy to go for counselling.
     
  4. Independentgal

    Independentgal Senior IL'ite

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    All this can be done for a person who thinks fair about his wife.But he is not like that.I dont think he even wants to stay with me after kids leave.For him it is all about money. He wants to keep me as a door mat until kids leave
     
  5. Independentgal

    Independentgal Senior IL'ite

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    yeah it is USA.He had a little arguement with the lady police officer on duty. He asked officer to shut her mouth ,but tried to cover it by saying ,I told to my mom not you.But she told him I am done and not talking with you anymore.
    But anyway at the end of the day it is my family and I am dealing with the reality
     
  6. Independentgal

    Independentgal Senior IL'ite

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    I far India is lot better in domestic violence cases
     
  7. Independentgal

    Independentgal Senior IL'ite

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    Yeah my stupidity absolutely ,I will send her off to day care from next summer.I am trying to keep mom until then
     
  8. Independentgal

    Independentgal Senior IL'ite

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    He didnt reply to my email until now and I dont think he will
     
  9. yellowmango

    yellowmango IL Hall of Fame

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    Then why do you want him back.

    Your older one already knows he is an egomaniac who hits the mother.

    Do you want the younger one to have the same environment ?

    Choosing this environment for your children ....isn't this a form of abuse?

    The children can't choose but parents can .

    Is your stay in the country dependent on him?
     
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  10. Independentgal

    Independentgal Senior IL'ite

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    No I am not any dependency on him.
    I just dont like custody issues for the kids. Going to him for few and again with me for few days.
    My daughter is going to india with him for 15 days in december because she is not happy to go with him.That thought itself is killing me.
    If I get divorced ,shuttling between parents is even more awful for kids.
     

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